Dare to be YOU!

Hey .. You! Yes .. YOU! The one that thinks you aren’t good enough. The one that believes you shouldn’t try because someone else has already done it, or can do it better. The one who believes you can’t do it because a teacher, someone you admired, or a parent said the dreaded, “you’ll never” phrase to you. The one who has heard, “you should, you are, or you are supposed to be” far too many times and as a result of not meeting the unrealistic expectations of another, feels like a failure. Have you not located yourself just yet? Ok, try this one, HEY YOU, the gifted and uniquely talented one that never makes a move because everyone sees it in you but you! HEY … YOU … YES, YOU … I’m writing to YOU!! 

HEAR ME CLEARLY! No one can do what you can do like you can do it! No one laughs like you. No one cries like you. No one sings or speaks like you. No one believes like you. No one loves like you do. No one has the heart that you have and no one can see what you see! 

So why do you keep trying to shove yourself into a circle hole when you clearly are a square? If you’re a dreamer, dream! If you’re a builder, build! If you’re a farmer, plant! If you’re a visionary, see! If you’re an organizer, establish order! If you’re a creative, create! 

Because many won’t understand it is no reason for you not to do it! Perhaps you were created to teach us something new! We’ll never learn from you if you spend your life trying to be what someone told you we’re supposed to be. Know yourself, embrace yourself, be proud of yourself, and become uniquely, unapologetically, YOU! Sure, some may hate you for it.  Yep, many will leave you because of it.  But in the end, the world will respect you all the more for it!  

“Be who you are, stand for what you believe, and let others know that your integrity matters more than their expectations and opinions” -Iyanla Vanzant

I believe in you, I love you, I’m rooting for you, I’m praying for you and I’m proud of you!

Love Always, 

❤️Gwen❤️

Holding on to Sweet Memories

The perfect tribute to my Mommy Dearest, painted by the incredibly talented Lauren Williams. This painting will always hold a special place in my heart. Many don’t know this, but I own over 20 pairs of Converse sneakers. Not because that’s my choice of shoe, but because my Mommy always wore them and when I look at my feet, it reminds me of her. When dealing with loss, we all have something that we hold on to that brings us comfort, that’s absolutely ok. Please understand that it is completely NORMAL and NATURAL to grieve. Converse sneakers are my thing, I know my Mommy is looking down at me laughing at my ridiculous shoe collection. Whatever your thing is, hold on to it and always honor and cherish the beautiful memories attached to it. Know that you are not alone. Grief is not an issue of the mind, it lives in the heart. You are not broken, you do not need to be fixed, but if you ever feel like you simply need to be heard, I’ve got you.

Contact me today:

info@asafeplacenc.org

www.gwendolynjjones.com

From my ❤️ to yours,

Gwen

F.L.Y. (First Love Yourself)

Loving yourself comes in many different forms. Whether it’s treating yourself, setting boundaries, positive self talk, or getting a babysitter for 2 hrs so you can focus on you, I want to see you SOARING this month!

If you accept my challenge post 👇👇 “Challenge ACCEPTED.”

Trust me, when you learn to love and accept YOU first, you’re a better person to and for everyone else! You matter and you’re needed, but you can not love another until you first learn to love yourself!

You know I’m in your corner, let’s do this! We’ve got all month long to get this right.

If you have ideas of how you’re practicing self-love do share! We need help loving ourselves! As women it’s a learned behavior!!

-❤️GJ

#selflove #selfcare #youmatter #doyou #relax #refresh #retreat #i❤️you #YouShould❤️You2

The Power of SHE

Nevertheless, SHE Persisted!! I love a mug with a positive message on it! What makes a lady special?? We PERSIST! Despite tears, despite struggle, despite road blocks. We persist despite of!!! God is within you, YOU WILL NOT FAIL! Keep pressing lovelies and NEVER forget the power of SHE! Love you, praying for you! #persistence #AlwaysMovingForward #goodvibesonly #Presstowardsthemark •📷:@the_chocolate_princess