You’re Killing It

Just set this as my wallpaper!

Figured someone else needed this reminder as well.

You are LOVED!
You are BEAUTIFUL!
You are BRAVE!
You are a GOOD MAMA!
You are an AWESOME WIFE!
You’re GREAT AT WHAT YOU DO!
YOU are MAKING IT HAPPEN!
You DESERVE REST!
You operate in EXCELLENCE!
You exist in Peace!
YOU CAN!
YOU WILL!
YOU MUST!
YOU MATTER!

Happy Friday.
💕Gwen

Dear Year #40

Hello 40,

I’m new here, but I can’t wait to learn all about you! You’re untapped territory, buried treasure that I’m eager to unearth and explore.

I’m not sure why you’re so special, but you feel like a reset, a release to go, see, do and be unapologetically me!

I’m grateful for years 1-39, they taught me a lot, but 40, you’re hitting differently! Something about you is already causing me to move differently.

Here are my commitments to you:

  1. To be present, savor every moment, and cherish loved ones.
  2. To be grateful and intentionally committed to kindness and service.
  3. Continued mental, emotional, physical and spiritual development.
  4. To be bold, curious and try new things often.

40, I think we’re gonna get along great, I’m already loving it here.

#40&Flourishing

#Bold&BeYOUtiful

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💕Gwendolyn Jones
Adv. Grief Recovery Specialist
Co-Founder A Safe Place: Emotional Wellness Institute
Gwendolynjjones.com

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What’s in a name?

My boy walks past my cup of coffee, reads the scripture on the rim, then looks at me and says, “Hey that cup has my name on it!”

My Response: It sure does son and what a powerful name it is!

Funny story! My husband, was extremely particular about our children’s names. I was interested in cuteness, flow, and the most adorable nickname. He was fixed on meaning and what we were speaking over their lives everytime we called their names! He doesn’t often put up a fight, but he believed in the power of a name! He said he WOULD NOT call his children, “just anything.” He stood his ground on this one!

Our children were nameless in the womb for months. I threw out hundreds of naming options, even assembled a committee to help me find the perfect name. He shot down 99.8% of my suggestions.

We finally settled on the names:

Alyssa (Rational/Noble) Christine (Christian) Jones

Joshua (God is Deliverer) Christian (follower of Christ) Jones.

From a young age, he taught our children what their names meant and encourages them to remember who they are when faced with adversity!

Their names are the mantras they live by. The divine standard preset for their lives before they took their first breath! The mantles they must carry as they carry our last name, JONES.

WeRJones isn’t grammatically correct, but it IS who we are!

It sets the boundaries for what we do, what we say, how we carry ourselves and the arenas we find ourselves in.

It’s not a cliche insinuating that others keep up, it’s a standard that we as a family must uphold!

“The name equips for the position”
-Alfonzo D. Jones II

What’s in a name?
Purpose, Power … EVERYTHING!

Alfonzo (Prepared for battle), Gwendolyn (Blessed Ring), Alyssa (Noble/Rational) & Joshua (God Delivers/Chosen Leader)

WeRJones – Commissioned to bring Joy, Light & Life to all that we encounter.

From Survivor to Overcomer

A Birthday tribute to my beautiful, amazing sister. I

To my devoted readers: I wrote this for my sister, but I believe this message is for you as well! I pray it blesses YOU.

My dearest Sis!
My first friend, my ride or die!

First of all, I love you!
Secondly, I admire you!

I think my word for you up until this point has been survivor. Lord knows you have survived. I’m so proud of you, you are BASS STRONG and not a quitter. You know your limits, you’re wise and witty. You know when to speak and when to be silent. You lay low and prepare until it’s time to execute. You move in elegance and grace and you are not afraid to make the hard decisions. You’re multifaceted. You’re a Mommy, sister, friend, advocate, coach and leader. You have climbed the ladder of success despite every opposition! So yes Sissy, you are a survivor but our minds, hearts and bodies aren’t equipped biologically, physiologically, or chemically to remain in survival mode indefinitely. While surviving our options are limited to fight, flight, or freeze!

To everything there is a season, I believe your season of warring has come to an end. I believe this year will bring transition to a season of calm, peace, rest, and trust. So yes, a new word is in order, my word for you now, is overcomer. To overcome means to succeed in dealing with (a problem or difficulty). You’ve fought long enough, it’s time to live! To experience! To try and do! I believe better is waiting for you on the other side of the fight! Enjoy the fruits of your labor! Reflect, Reevaluate, Refocus & REST Sis, the world is yours for the taking! Become a collector of everything you require to flourish!

Watching you evolve is a beautiful thing. I know Mommy is in heaven saying, “That’s my girl!” She ALWAYS saw something special in you and went to great lengths to protect you as best she knew how. Girl, you’ve succeeded .. you’ve won more battles than you’ve lost. Spread your wings and Fly! You’re already GREAT .. keep things in proper perspective. Go, taste and see, sis, then tell me all about it!

I love you!
Happy Happy Birthday!
🤟🏾✊🏽❤️

The Original Serenity Prayer

WOW! I read the Serenity Prayer daily! Finally took a moment to learn it’s origin story and found this!

I’m totally adopting this original version and I pray it encourages you!

Happy Friday

💕Gwen
Adv. Grief Recovery Specialist
Emotional Wellness Coach
Gwendolynjjones.com
Podcast Host:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-gwen-jones-podcast/id1564631035
Author: misfit2majorfit.com

Not Today Satan!

This morning, my bestie and I declared that TODAY WILL BE A GOOD DAY!

All was well, I put my coffe down to grab my things and head in to work!

A mighty, rushing wind came out of nowhere and tried to blow my coffee away!

✅Yes the cup was 3/4 empty

But that’s my business!!

All I know is I caught that cup like a professional catcher and made a new declaration 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾

NOT
TODAY
SATAN!

NOT TODAY!

Happy Friday!

Tell yourself and someone else you love them today .. and hold on tight to your coffee and everything else you hold dear to your ❤️!

Self – Check

This is the Million dollar question!!!

When is the last time you paused and checked in with yourself?

I pause around this time daily. I’m generally wrapping up at work and preparing for whatever my evening requires. So it’s a good time for me to self – check!

Right now, I’m good. I’m feeling accomplished, productive, a little hungry, happy and at peace! Looking forward to an evening with family (although I haven’t yet tackled dinner, but that’s a daily struggle 😝).

I’m a morning person, so by this time, my energy levels begin to dwindle. That’s all good because I know this about myself, so by this point in my day, majority of my business is handled. How I set myself up for success and guard against burnout. I’ve dedicated my evenings to taxi 🚖 driving (my kiddos are crazy busy), focusing on family, restoration and preparation for the next day.

So I ask again, “How are you?” If you haven’t already, take a moment and self-check, be brutally honest with yourself. Once you discover your truth, continue to question #2 👉 WHAT DO YOU NEED??? Once you’re clear on this MAKE IT HAPPEN!! NO EXCEPTIONS OR EXCUSES .. GET WHAT YOU NEED!!! You cannot properly care for anyone else if you aren’t caring for yourself.

💕Gwen
Adv. Grief Recovery Specialist
Emotional Wellness Coach
Gwendolynjjones.com
Podcast Host:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-gwen-jones-podcast/id1564631035
Author: misfit2majorfit.com

New Day = New Opportunity

Opportunity: A set of circumstances that makes it possible to do something.

Today is a new day!
New Day = New Opportunities

Seize: to take eagerly and decisively

Shout out to all the beautiful people that woke up this morning and DECIDED TO SEIZE THIS DAY!

Today is MY OPPORTUNITY to:
GET UP & TRY AGAIN
DREAM AGAIN
BREATHE AGAIN
LIVE AGAIN

“Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin.”
-Mother Teresa

💕Gwen
Adv. Grief Recovery Specialist
Emotional Wellness Coach
Gwendolynjjones.com
Podcast Host:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-gwen-jones-podcast/id1564631035
Author: misfit2majorfit.com